AttentiveKids Parent Playbook ยท Juniors (Grades 3โ5)
Home checklist
Sleep & screens
- Pick a bedtime and wake time together.
- Choose a time when screens go down for everyone, grown-ups included.
Study space & routine
- Choose one spot together โ kitchen table counts.
- Write the order on a card with your child.
Homework start
- Agree a start cue: "When the snack's done, I open my book."
- Ask your child to break tonight's work into three to five small steps.
- Sit nearby with your own reading or paperwork.
Movement & outdoor play
- Put 15 minutes of movement right after school.
- Choose a weekend slot for an hour outside.
Family games without screens
- Pick one evening this week for a 20-minute game.
- Put 8โ12 objects on a tray and look for one minute.
Conversations & praise
- Swap "you're so smart" for "you tried a new way".
Phone & device rules
- Agree when screens are fine and when they're off (meals, homework, bedtime).
Reading together
- Pick a time โ after dinner or in bed.
Calm-down routines
- Choose a cosy spot together โ a cushion, a blanket.
- Practise together: breathe in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4.
Exam weeks
- Keep the usual bedtime and breakfast in test week.
